I’ve never thought bonding through sex was a good idea, but this belief was taken to a new level when I lived in India and came to the realization that there are energetic repercussions to bonding through sex.
So what do I mean by ‘bonding through sex’? I’m talking about bonding (or attempting to bond) through the act of sex alone, before a solid foundation and trust bond is built with the person. In other words, it’s attempting to forge a bond with someone based on purely physical drive, as opposed to building a bond through the emotional, intellectual and spiritual self.
While it may feel good in the moment, acting from our ‘Lower Self’ (or what I like to call the ‘Little Me’) never results in anything good. During contemplation, here are some realizations that I’ve had about bonding through sex:
- It can give a false foundation to the relationship
- It can skew reality and give misperceptions to reality/What Is
- According to teaching I learned through my travels in India – there are energetic repercussions. Namely, that our entire ancestral karma is stored in our DNA and, when we bond with someone through physical intimacy, we are merging our energy and our DNA and, therefore, taking some of their ancestral karma. Not cool if you don’t even know the person you’re engaging with!
This isn’t to stand in judgement of anyone who bonds in this way. It’s simply something I feel guided to post, to give a different perspective on the topic and bring into the awareness of anyone interested. During a recent conversation with a friend, I realized that these realizations may be helpful for others.