I’ve never thought bonding through sex was a good idea, but this belief was taken to a new level when I lived in India and came to the realization that there are energetic repercussions to bonding through sex.
So what do I mean by ‘bonding through sex’? I’m talking about bonding (or attempting to bond) through the act of sex alone, before a solid foundation and trust bond is built with the person. In other words, it’s attempting to forge a bond with someone based on purely physical drive, as opposed to building a bond through the emotional, intellectual and spiritual self.
While it may feel good in the moment, acting from our ‘Lower Self’ (or what I like to call the ‘Little Me’) never results in anything good. During contemplation, here are some realizations that I’ve had about bonding through sex: [Read more…]