Going through a break up? Can’t let go? Stuck in one from the past? Parting with a friend? Then this is for you. Releasing Relationships – How to Let Go of a Love When You Don’t Want To.
When you open yourself completely to another, one of two things will happen:
- You gain a friend for life
- You gain a life lesson
Either way, the outcome is good, right? Even if it doesn’t feel good in the moment. The trick is to surrender into the moment instead of fighting against reality.
Let go with love and gratitude and if you want to reach out to the other person, instead, you can journal a letter to him or her; out-processing everything stored inside that needs to be released: The things you are grateful for; the things you regret; the things you wish you would have done differently; the things you wish s/he would have done differently, etc.
If someone has wronged you or lost respect for you, then love yourself enough to set solid boundaries and not reach out to that person again.
If you find that there is an energetic connection that you can’t shake (you can’t stop thinking about the person, they pervade your dreams, you feel an attachment that you can’t seem to shake), then call in and ask for divine assistance or – if you have an active imagination – see where your energy is streaming to that person and break the streams.
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See you next week. Until then, to your life of health and bliss!
Blessings and love to you!